But I am trying my best!
Admitting your mistakes and shortcomings is half the battle. As explained on this page, most of us did not receive adequate formation, if at all, to perform at such a sophisticated level. Truth be told, the one who might have played a role in coaching you for your current position came with a similar beginning: no training, bad training, learning on the fly, learning by catastrophic failure, little mentorship and so on. This vicious cycle keeps on repeating itself as generation upon generation of leaders emerge.
“I have not failed. I have just found ten thousand ways that won’t work.” -Thomas Edison
So when realizing that you are not at the desired level, you resort to seeking help elsewhere. Probably starting with self-help books, magazines, youtube videos, blogs, podcasts and so on. If your determination, time and wallet allowed you, you might even have gone to a public talk on the subject or taken a course.
The fact is, no amount of self-help can prove helpful for what is assuredly one of the most difficult tasks on this planet: how to lead and manage others effectively. Unless you are aware of the exact area of improvement needed to rectify your situation, in which case you would not be in this position, there are simply too many components involved allowing for a self-recovery. It would be as probable as you and I completely dismantling the space shuttle and putting it back together in a working state. In other words, you are looking for a miracle.
You are in good hands, Progressive Human Development Services is here to assist you.
Our aim is two-fold. On the one hand, we will establish an initial plan of action relevant to your immediate needs, thus relieving you from the stress and anxiety factor. On the other hand, we will develop a long-term coaching system providing you with the strong foundation that will allow you to build a comfortable leadership and management career.
Remember that you do not know what you do not know which is why you find yourself in this precarious predicament. But with your determination and our assistance, you will assuredly become a master in human relationship.